It was perfect at first. I had a cute little apartment to
decorate, thousands of organizations I could join, friends to make, and endless
opportunities. So I jumped in head first. But then I sank. I found out quickly
that decorating is expensive, so are groceries, school supplies, and basically
everything in college. I didn’t get accepted to the only women’s organization I
applied to (a common problem for a confident freshman). And I quickly learned
that if you find a friend in a class of 350 people, but don’t get their number,
chances are you probably won’t see that person again. Believe it or not, out of
that sixty thousand people in College Station, it is so hard to find a good
friend.
Now, here I am struggling through week six, homesick for small
town, Pennsylvania. It’s weird, I have always been so proud of my
courageousness, confidence, and independence. I never pictured myself as one
who would search for cheap plane tickets daily and find events like Homecoming
or a cattle show a “good reason” to come home. Unfortunately, last minute plane
tickets are not cheap and driving 24 hours both ways for a weekend home is
crazy. So I have found other ways to cope:
Find your
passion
Obviously I liked something about
Texas, or I wouldn’t be here. For me, it’s the land and agriculture. So on the
weekends, Nolan and I find something to do and take our time getting there;
stopping every couple miles, or less, to take pictures. In Texas, in every
direction you go you’ll find beautiful (well to us at least) farmland and
thousands of cattle. We take advantage of this abundance and feed our passion.
Do
something that reminds you of home
Nothing says home to me like a county fair.
When the radio man said, “Neal McCoy at the Waller County Fair”, I knew I had
to be there. Well, the Waller Co. Fair was small, and I mean even smaller than
my beloved Somerset County Fair. But I did find that sense of home watching their
sale of champions, while eating fries with cheese and drinking lemonade, and again
at the rodeo. Finally, as we were watching Neal McCoy shake it, I realized this
was by far the most fun Nolan and I had since our move to Texas. For a while, I
forgot about being 1,000 miles from home.
FaceTime,
Skype, whatever
FaceTime and Skype have been a
saving grace for me while dealing with my homesick blues. I FaceTime my momma
(and my dogs, cats, and ducks) regularly and I LOVE IT. I also have Skype dates
with my best friends back home and my best friend in the ARMY (I am so proud).
Just last Sunday, I found out via FaceTime that one of my best friends got
engaged. It was SO much better than any call or text I could have gotten. So
text your friend, mom, grandma, whoever and say, “hey, tonight if you’re free
let’s have a Skype or FaceTime date” and it will be wonderful, I promise.
Use
Social Media
Like Skype and Facetime, I love social media!
I use Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter to keep up with family and friends while
I’m away. Both of my grandmas and Nolan’s grandma are on Facebook, and I think
that’s adorable! So I try to post pictures often for family. Sometimes I feel extra
obligated to post on Facebook, so my mom doesn’t have to inform me that, “so
and so hasn’t seen you on Facebook in a while and they want to know are you
having fun/doing okay in college?” As far as Instagram and Twitter go, same
concept, just for more of our generation.
Try to
Make a Few Friends
It’s so easy to be antisocial and watch
Netflix for hours upon hours, but it doesn’t hurt to take a few minutes to talk
to your neighbor when you’re out. Our super nice neighbors have an adorable dog named
Jagger, so being the animal lovers that we are, that is how we made friends!
Just by chatting when we saw them out, buying Jagger treats, and being
friendly, we have friends. Easier said than done, right?
I am definitely still learning to cope with this monster
called “homesickness”. But whether you’re a senior in high school considering
colleges or a college student going through the same thing, I hope this little
bit of insight helps!
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